时间:2026-04-08 20:05:08 来源:网络整理编辑:休閑
Mothers know that there's no easy way to bring a baby into the world, but new mothers are also acute
Mothers know that there's no easy way to bring a baby into the world, but new mothers are also acutely aware of the judgements others pass on pretty much every element of parenting.
Though the cesarean section is quite common -- it accounted for 32.2% of U.S. births in 2014 -- it's a surgery with its own set of challenges just like any other. Raye Lee, a new mother from Springfield, Missouri, shared her anger with the notion that her c-section -- that anyc-section -- was an "easy" alternative to vaginal birth.
She vented her frustrations in a Facebook post that's since been shared more than 19,000 times.
"This was the most painful thing I have experienced in my life," she wrote. "I now belong to a badass tribe of mamas with the scar to prove that I had a baby cut out of me and lived to tell the tale."
Raye detailed her challenging recovery, from the "ripping pain of a body cut apart and stitched back together" when attempting to get out of bed, to learning that it will take more than 6 weeks for her core muscles to heal on their own.
"I am the strongest woman, that I know," she writes. "Not only for myself, but for my beautiful son... and I would honestly go through this every single day just to make sure I am able to see his smiling face."
The post resonated with thousands of people, many of whom shared their own c-section experiences, and thanked Raye for her honesty.
"Thank you for sharing your story," one woman writes. "It's sad that people think that a c-section is an easy way out. I didn't grow up saying 'I hope I have a c-section when I have a baby'. I never thought I would have one, but my 1st child got stuck and we both almost died so an emergency c-section was needed. Anyone that puts down a mother for having a c-section, has no heart."
TopicsFamily & Parenting
Pole vaulter claims his penis is not to blame2026-04-08 19:52
Kanye West keeps canceling on James Corden's Carpool Karaoke2026-04-08 19:48
Leaked Apple patent shows designs for tank2026-04-08 19:31
Walmart's purchase of Jet.com, by the numbers2026-04-08 19:19
Over 82,000 evacuate as Blue Cut fire rapidly spreads in southern California2026-04-08 18:59
Netflix will bring 'Amanda Knox' doc to Toronto International Film Festival2026-04-08 18:53
The diving pool at the Olympics has mysteriously turned green2026-04-08 18:20
The long journey of America's first Olympian to compete in a hijab2026-04-08 17:59
New Zealand designer's photo series celebrates the elegance of aging2026-04-08 17:47
Ah, yes, here are 50,000 rubber ducks cascading into the Chicago River2026-04-08 17:34
Watch MTV's Video Music Awards 2016 livestream2026-04-08 19:10
11 absolutely terrifying illnesses you can get at the Rio Olympics2026-04-08 18:52
Tired man wearing a 'Stop Taking Selfies’ shirt appears in selfie2026-04-08 18:38
Facebook suspended woman's account during fatal standoff with police2026-04-08 18:32
Early Apple2026-04-08 18:18
Justin Bieber is nude on vacation and cold water is wet2026-04-08 18:05
James Corden will get the 'Peter Rabbit' movie hopping at Sony2026-04-08 17:57
Chatbot offers free legal aid to the homeless2026-04-08 17:48
Tyler, the Creator helped Frank Ocean celebrate 'Blonde' release in a delicious way2026-04-08 17:45
Australian comedian recounts casual racism by Qantas staff via Twitter2026-04-08 17:29